May 2012
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15. no one, and schizophrenics least of all who do it best, can live in this...
– chris kraus, i love dick
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17. because identifying so completely with someone else can only happen by...
– chris kraus, i love dick
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13. schizophrenics have a gift for locking into other people’s minds....
– chris kraus, i love dick
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after 2 years, 3 breakups, and and several false...
emily left it behind for me that weekend i stayed in her apartment (may 28-30, 2010) and i didn’t read it. i bought it last summer and couldn’t read it, at least not all of it. i read it. i didn’t know—truly—that there would be hannah wilke and schizophrenia at the end. i’m ready to talk about it now.
April 2012
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my second favorite citation?
hysteriarama:
Am I a feminist pick-up artist?
Negging music dudes by telling them that they don’t know a thing about tumblr (true), and to get back to me when they’ve read karaj’s blog (could have been so many other blogs, but karaj is the perfect theoretically-threatening high femme combo).
Also I brought up Lana del Rey in the middle of their borecore sound art music douche talk, and they...
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my favorite citation in life so far, partly for...
“was on a panel at brooklyn college this morning called ‘trauma’ during which i cited you
i believe i said something like: i don’t actually think it is useful to have a discourse on trauma. i think feminism might be better served if we could think about what kara jesella calls an ‘erotics of trauma’ no one said anything so i take that to mean they have all...
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just got home from a 9 hour brunch
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tumblr feminism online and IRL forever
cedars:
sassmadness:
farahjoon:
bubberd:
Oh my god. Farah look at this. our lives. OUR LIVES.
things I love about tumblr:
we don’t give each other shit about being online all day because slackerdom is, like, okay
the feminists I know and love on here literally don’t give a fuck. they’re unapologetically divisive and I always feel insecure about my separatist vibes, so having folks...
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media literacy
[redacted 1]: what is details?
[mh]: it's for guys who bought a nirvana album at brown and it really meant a lot to them.
seduction, grad-school-style
lf: OH MY GOD KARA I WANT TO HAVE SO MUCH SEX WITH YOUR BRAIN.
kj: want to come to my apartment and have a glass of wine? out of a plastic cup? ill put leggings on for you.
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…the project of staging a great refusal.
– jose esteban munoz, cruising utopia
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totally. caps lock forever.
farahjoon:
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Digital Identity 1
sassmadness:
Sarah and I are liveblogging the conference on Tumblr, because what else would we do? We also femme flagged as Tumblr academics last night: reddish-orange nails, with a gold ring finger.
Sarah’s friend Bonnie is talking about Shakesville and safe space. It’s so funny, because when we first got the program for the conference, I saw Bonnie’s presentation and was really worried that...
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the schizophrenia of female writing is more pervasive. it doesn’t stop. it’s...
– chris kraus, “continuity” (via feminaissance)
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tonight my friend and i celebrated his book deal...
we went on our book tour in 2007 and we had a reading in seattle and that day two different writers at two different newspapers wrote about how this cool book on sassy came out and they would totally come to our reading except they were totally going to see miranda july instead.
there were like four people at our reading and one of them was my boyfriend. another one of them was calvin...
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the dreaminess that precedes the other things
kristen-stone:
sometimes i forget who i am and imagine that any day now i will be married and pregnant/parenting…when my parents were mine/jas’ age they were homeowners, my dad was a young professional, and i was an infant.
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i think this has been going on for me for years and i am always comparing myself to where my parents were at my age and it’s mind-boggling. also my three...
borninflames asked: Oh god, your post on Girls. Confession: I haven't watched it. I live in New York, I don't need to watch TV to see girls who could buy and sell me being over everything and clever and aware of themselves and the world only insofar as it makes for good anecdote. Also, this broke my heart: "clever apolitical vaguely artsy girls can be everywhere if you don’t know where else to...
msjamiekeiles-deactivated201208 asked: your girls post is so spot on (though i swore i wouldn't talk about girls anymore so, um). i hate clever too.
bennettmadison asked: although i think your girls thoughts are slightly harsh, i cannot stop loling over a fight over whether a bird is a poem.
aloofshahbanou asked: KARA KARA KARA zomg yr post on Girls! I just wanna say that I've been ~forcing~ myself to watch the show just to kind of, idk, *lazily* unpack its white, bourgie douchefuckery or whatever is mentally possible at 3 in the morning on a school night, but episode 2! it was an episode on Jemima Kirke's--she's the only reason I watch, tbh--character's "abortion" and there...
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me too
oxxenfree:
Tonight I was sitting at the bar of a dive with transartorialism
and we were eating onion rings and drinking beer
and talking about trans narratives and how panel presentations are never as satisfying as their titles
and I had this sudden weird thought that my younger self would be pleased with how things turned out, in that moment,
like I’m pretty sure that all my younger self...
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wait, actually i think i already did this
kj: i just got a cfp for a conference on digital ethics. i think i should submit an abstract for a paper entitled: "digital ethics: why i dont have any"
just kidding!
mh: hahah you totally should!!! "Taking a Bite out of Digital Ethics"
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misprision is a mechanism of production insofar as it is an apparatus of...
– aliza shvarts
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what more might feminism accomplish if it sought to know its own perversion? if...
– aliza shvarts
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for as both good poets and feminists know, sometimes we must willfully and...
– aliza shvarts
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daddy i have had to kill you.
– sylvia plath, daddy
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higher standards in 2012
lh: you would be the catch of any conference
kj: no i already dated the best of the conference
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then he said "sorry" and i started laughing
kj: aliza thinks every guy wants an artsy girlfriend but i don't know.
lh: no, it's a commitment signing up for you two.
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also one time we were standing there with taylor...
and i was like (to myself) “i want to believe that we are” but “no we aren’t” and also “this is so funny, what does taylor swift even think a real, grown-up relationship is?” she gave us her taylor OMG face and hugged me and said she had heard all about me and it was super hilarious and i smiled, and i’m done with this, i’m going to bed, i...
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exorcisms work
during the transformational post-exams walk i told aliza that it was about to be what would be our two-year-anniversary. (or six—he always wanted to count from the beginning even though there were all those people in between. “it’s been six years for me,” he said mournfully, the second-to-last time we broke up). the thing is that we had never celebrated the...
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I LIKE
pussy-strut:
that we’re all being really assertive and intentional about what things are our dads and moms and so on
up the theory moms, down the feelings dads, chosen families for all
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point is, rethink affective relationships to work. rethink labour. rethink...
– cedars
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yeah. this. the injunction to be useful, productive, valuable, tradeable,...
– pussy-strut