i am so sorry you have been fighting with marc. i think it is totally normal though given death, sadness, etc. and i have a thought that i think applies to both of us: maybe the trick is not finding people we won’t fight with, or break up with, (because what is actually the fun in that), but actually finding people who still want to talk to us afterwards. people who don’t necessarily hold us to the consequences of our feelings. i am glad marc is being so great about that. it’s kind of better i think than not fighting at all. though i know the fighting feels terrible.